Meeting people online has the great advantage that you get
to know quite a few things about their personality, especially if you have been
chatting for a while. But even then, the first date still plays an important
role in deciding if your date is a good match. White girls looking for black men are not looking just for someone
from a different race. They are also looking for a man they can have a
meaningful relationship with, who has common goals with them and they can
imagine a long term future with him. Are you wondering what clothes have to do
with all that?
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The way we are dressed reveals a great deal about our
personality and intentions. And learning to adjust our clothes according to the
circumstances is a great skill. Think of it this way: if you are a skater or graffiti
artist on your free time and you go to a formal job interview, what are the
chances of you getting hired if you wear your skate apparel? Unless the
interview takes place at a skate company, zilch. It is exactly like that with
dating. A bit of flexibility does not mean that you are trying to mislead your
date. It means that you are doing your best to look good for them.
You will notice that whitewomen looking for black men will dress in the best possible way to
impress them. However, in a room full with well-dressed women, you can still
tell apart the different personalities. It's the choice of colors and
accessories and the fitting of the clothes that gives away personality traits.
And the same goes with men. You can be sharply dressed for a date and still get
across who you are, even without your studded leather jacket on!
The adventurous type
If you are an adventurous type you can choose to dress down
a suit by wearing it with a nice t-shirt, instead of a shirt. Just make sure
that it shirt is well-ironed and the color does not clash with your pants. Instead
of a formal jacket you could go with a sweater or cardigan, if the weather is
chilly. This gives the impression that you tried enough to look good, but you
do not like rigidness.
The fashionable type
A nice suit with an original accessory is all that you need.
Be it a silk scarf, a pair of cufflinks or a pair of shoes with an unusual
color, it will do the trick. Women do notice those small details and appreciate
them, especially if they are fashionable types, like you.
The traditional type
If you are a traditional guy, then just make sure to wear a
suit that suits you, without any extravagant add-ons that can give the wrong
impression. Wearing clean ironed clothes and a nice-smelling after shave or
perfume is all you need to impress a lady.
The rebellious type
If you hate conformism and dressing in anything other than
your leather jacket, baseball cap and low waist jeans seems like a treason, you
can still impress a lady. Wear the type of clothes that make you feel
comfortable, but invest in clothes that fit you well. Yes, there are oversized
pants that fit well and others that don't! Find your size. And do let your date
know that it is going to be a casual evening. She will feel either bad or
disappointed if she is overdressed.
And remember: no matter what you wear, you confidence is
your best accessory!
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