Our lives are really fast-paced. Many of us work long hours,
have children to take care of and need to take care of the house or older
family members as well. This leaves little to no time for dating. Fortunately,
online dating is a solution to that issue, as it allows us to meet a great
number of people on line and not waste time dating people we are not interested
in. However, these crazy times have made many of us cynical and even when we
meet our soul mate, we don't know how to be romantic anymore. Everything around
us is so practical, rational and efficient, that we need to rediscover romance.
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Buy flowers
It doesn't matter if you date white women or black
men. Both sexes will appreciate the gesture. If you are picking her up to go
out, give her the flowers before you leave home, so that she doesn't have to
carry them around. Sending her flowers
at home is also a nice surprise. Just make sure to add a card and write
something sweet inside. It makes it much more personal. If you are planning to
send her flowers to her workplace, make sure that you won't cause her any
trouble first.
Cook
People do still “cook” for each other, but most of the times
it’s just reheated take-away or sushi from the restaurant in the corner. Cook
something traditional for a change. Cook your favorite comfort food the way
your mother would prepare it for you. There is nothing that says “I care for
you” more than a nurturing meal. Especially when it comes to interracial relationships,
cooking is also a way to get to know each other's culture. And in order to
reassure her that you are not just trying to lure her into your home, plan to
go out after the dinner, to watch a movie or take a walk.
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Get crafty
It doesn't matter how low your grade was in all those art
classes growing up. You don't even have to make something beautiful. Just
drawing a simple card or making the simplest paper boat will make your date a
happy human being. Taking the time to create something in today's busy world
means that you really like the person who will receive your (maybe primitive)
work of art.
Call “just because”
Or text. Whatever you are more comfortable with. White women looking for black men know that -much like white men- they are
usually not that talkative. Now, imagine what a great surprise it will be for
her if you call or text her not to arrange a date or because you forgot her
address, but just because you missed her. You don't even have to say “I miss
you”, if you are not comfortable with it just yet. A simple “good morning!”
will make her day. And if you are a lady dating a guy, keep in mind that those
short surprise texts will be much more appreciated that half-hour long calls,
where women usually do all the talking.
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Buy little gifts
If you pass by a bookstore and you see a book or poster she
would like, buy it for her. If you go on a trip and see a silly card that would
make him laugh, get it for him. This small gestures show that you keep each
other in your mind not only during your dates, but when you are apart as well.
Just keep those surprise gifts symbolic, so that the other person does not feel
bad, if they cannot afford to offer you things of similar value.
Go ahead, get creative and resist our romance-killing times!
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